– and be reassured that there are no monsters in her bedroom5. Create a cosy bedtime routine  Make going to bed relaxing and fun. Sing soothing lullabies and read a bedtime story that has a happy ending

! Parenting should be fun, at least some of the time. And when you're happy,your child will feel relaxed and happy, too. Parents can often findthemselves trying to control their babies and toddlers; trying to force themto behaving a certain way. Instead, take